The first thing that you should do is to check your SPAM/Junk Mail folders to see if it didn't end up in there. You can also re-request an activation email, simply go to this page
and do so.
There are two levels of verification, the first level or Level 1 is to have a moderator or ambasador verify you via a webcam session on MSN messenger. The second level or Level 2 is to meet up with an ambasador in order for you to be verified as the real deal.
To become a member of this community is free yes, however we do require members to purchase a subscription in order to access some feature on the website. It is because of these paying members that this website continues to exist as server rental doesn't come cheap ;)